70+ Most Beautiful Lesbian Wedding to Inspire Your Big Day

Love Knows No Boundaries!

Your wedding could be the most momentous occasion of your life, and also the most stressful. Thanks to the dedication of the LGBTQ+ couples, open displays of affection are now protected by law, marking a significant victory. It's an adventure to plan your lesbian wedding. You get to enjoy both the beauty of your love and the beauty of marriage equality. You can be as conventional or nontraditional as you like when it comes to your wedding. Here are some of our favorite same sex wedding ideas, including places to celebrate, dresses to wear, and decorations to make your big day truly unforgettable as a lesbian bride-to-be.

Lesbian Wedding Ideas

We've gathered a bunch of exciting ideas for lesbian weddings, whether you're planning a big ceremony or just want to have a small wedding in your backyard. From glitzy vacation weddings to cozy get-togethers, our ideas are sure to inspire you as you start this happy journey.

Wedding Dresses

Gone are the days when finding a wedding dress for a curvy figure seemed impossible. And LGBTQ wedding outfits? They are nothing short of amazing, tailor-made garments that make you feel like a true rock star. If you're looking for a style that beautifully highlights both your feminine and masculine qualities, we've got you covered. Check out these ideas for lesbian wedding outfits that will accentuate your curves in all the right places, allowing you to confidently walking down the aisle in style. And if you're a fan of traditions, like the surprise of revealing your attire, embrace it! It creates fantastic photo opportunities during the preparation moments.

love and style with beautiful lesbian wedding outfits and blush wedding bouquet that redefine beauty
love and style with beautiful lesbian wedding outfits and blush wedding bouquet that redefine beauty
celebrate love with a beautifully fitted lesbian wedding suit and gown
celebrate love with a beautifully fitted lesbian wedding suit and gown (Kirsty Mackenzie Photography)
two beautiful lesbian brides in high neck wedding dress with picture perfect background
two beautiful lesbian brides in high neck wedding dress with picture perfect background (Lisah Hause Photography)
confetti during lesbian wedding two brides in lace and green wedding suits
confetti during lesbian wedding two brides in lace and green wedding suits (Jessica Hopwood Photography)
lesbian retro style wedding attire
lesbian retro style wedding attire (Golden Vibes Photo)

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lesbian brides love in gorgeous gown and rainbow wedding colors
lesbian brides love in gorgeous gown and rainbow wedding colors (tularosaflowers)
lesbian wedding brides in lace wedding dress and jumpsuit with colorful bouquet
lesbian wedding brides in lace wedding dress and jumpsuit with colorful bouquet (Grace Eliz Photo)
jumpsuit and lace lesbian bridal dress
jumpsuit and lace lesbian bridal dress
the sun setting on this gorgeous lesbian wedding and the beauty of two brides in love
the sun setting on this gorgeous lesbian wedding and the beauty of two brides in love (Sandy Alonso Photography)
lesbian brides in A line lace wedding outfits holding flag
lesbian brides in A line lace wedding outfits holding flag (masonphotography)
lesbian pink ball wedding gown with rustic wedding bouquet
lesbian pink ball wedding gown with rustic wedding bouquet
two lesbian brides in pink ball gown and wedding suit
two lesbian brides in pink ball gown and wedding suit (Luxart Wedding Studio)
jumpsuit and short lesbian wedding outfits with rainbow backdrop and colorful bouquet
jumpsuit and short lesbian wedding outfits with rainbow backdrop and colorful bouquet (Martine Payne Photography)
low key lesbian beach wedding ideas
low key lesbian beach wedding ideas (Cori Taylor Photography)

Lesbian Wedding Vows

If you want to remember the meaning of your wedding, it's best to write your own wedding vows. Writing your own vows isn't required for a lesbian wedding, but it's a wonderful way to share your love with your partner in your own words and show your friends and family how far you've come as a couple. Short romantic quotes and heartfelt compliments about each other, or a humorous twist on the traditional vows, are sure to set your wedding ceremony apart from others.

Best Examples For Same Sex Vows

lesbian wedding vows promise love and honor
lesbian wedding vows promise love and honor (Kirsty Mackenzie Photography)

Today, my heart is full of joy as I stand before you surrounded by love and watched by everyone who cares about us. From the first time I met you, I knew we had something special, a bond that goes beyond words. I found comfort, understanding, and steady support in your arms.

As I hold your hand today, I promise to respect and love you for the rest of my life. I vow to always be by your side, whether it's to toast your success or console you in your failure. Together, we'll make a safe place filled with love and understanding, where our spirits can grow and our souls can fly.

In this marriage, there can be no second thoughts. Our love is unconditional, unreserved, and without boundaries. It serves as an inspiration for those that follow. Besides being your partner, I now promise to always be your best friend, champion, and biggest fan.

I promise to always cheer for you and support you, to love you unconditionally, to share in every experience with you, and to celebrate with you as my wife. Here's the part of our story where I tell you “And they lived happily ever after”

lesbian intimate wedding vows ideas
lesbian intimate wedding vows ideas (Martine Payne Photography)

In your eyes, I see myself as I really am. Today, I'm going to make you some easy but important promises. I promise to take your advice seriously and listen to it. I'll make coffee in the morning and be a soothing presence at night as the big spoon.

I promise to give you space, even if it makes me uncomfortable. I'll just say, “I'm sorry, that stinks,” instead of trying to fix everything. I promise to hold my temper and treat tickling as a special delight.

I promise that next time I feel myself getting cranky, I won't need you to tell me. Even on the worst of days, I will keep trying in being the best version of myself. Together, we shall make steady progress on our journey. Despite everything else, I promise to love you unconditionally, shining light into your shadows and sharing in all of life's exciting adventures with you.

lesbian wedding happy celebration and unbreakable bond
lesbian wedding happy celebration and unbreakable bond

Vows from The Witcher series of books:

“Thus do I take you
to have and to hold
for the most wondrous and terrible of times
for the best and the worst of times
by day and by night
in sickness and in health.
For I love you with all of my heart
and swear to love you eternally,
Until death do us part.”

Customize Wedding Invitation and Signage

Whether you're having a more traditional wedding or something a little out of the norm, you should definitely send out LGBT wedding invitations to your guests. Every chess expert knows the queen is the most powerful piece. Show off your inner badass by creating jaw-dropping wedding invites. Moreover, there is an abundance of “Mr. and Mrs.” signs, but an equally amazing selection of alternatives for same sex couples. Ceremony signs declaring the newlyweds as “Mr. and Mrs.” and matching chair decorations are available in a rainbow of colors and designs to match any wedding theme.

rainbow signage and invitation for lesbian wedding
rainbow signage and invitation for lesbian wedding (The Gay Agenda Collective)
beautiful watercolor LGBTQ wedding invitation ideas
beautiful watercolor LGBTQ wedding invitation ideas (Wellwood Wedding Stationary)
same sex rustic wedding sign for blushing lesbian brides
same sex rustic wedding sign for blushing lesbian brides (The Old Potting Shed Ltd)
Mrs. seat lesbian wedding chair sign décor
Mrs. seat lesbian wedding chair sign décor (elysia)
lgbt wedding vows cards and ring with floral decor
lgbt wedding vows cards and ring with floral decor
same sex wedding colorful welcome sign
same sex wedding colorful welcome sign (tularosaflowers)
mrs and mrs personalized unicorn lesbian wedding card
Mrs. and Mrs. personalized unicorn lesbian wedding card (Rulu Art)
colorful table number for lesbian barn wedding in winter
colorful table number for lesbian barn wedding in winter (Caligrafia)

Cute Wedding Photos

Want to see some stunning pictures from real weddings? Images of love and laughter on the one hand, and serious images evoking powerful emotions like pride on the other. Imagine the most stunning backdrops for your lesbian or gay weddings reception photos. A ring on show, a love flag flying, a kiss in the glittering rain, a photo booth session, etc., are all surefire ways to get people staring.

photos of cute lesbian weddings that are crazy in pink
photos of cute lesbian weddings that are crazy in pink
pink suit and short wedding dress LGBT wedding ideas
pink suit and short wedding dress LGBT wedding ideas
same sex love cute wedding photos
same sex love cute wedding photos
lesbian wedding photo with love and laughter
lesbian wedding photo with love and laughter
LGBT forest wedding shoot ideas
LGBT forest wedding shoot ideas (Kirsty Mackenzie Photography)
two lovely lesbian brides celebrate loves victory in a real wedding that radiates equality unity and joy under the rainbow flag
two lovely lesbian brides celebrate loves victory in a real wedding that radiates equality unity and joy under the rainbow flag (Julia Summers Photography)
two brides in white wedding dress and green wedding suit with rustic wedding cake
two brides in white wedding dress and green wedding suit with rustic wedding cake (Jessica Hopwood Photography)
same sex cute wedding photos in lace wedding dress
same sex cute wedding photos in lace wedding dress (Grace Eliz Photo)
LGBTQ outdoor wedding photo shoot
LGBTQ outdoor wedding photo shoot (masonphotography)
these two laughing brides are the cutest lesbian duet in a magical moment
these two laughing brides are the cutest lesbian duet in a magical moment (allieandsam)
happy lesbian brides in a breathtaking photo session
happy lesbian brides in a breathtaking photo session (Sandya Lonso Photography)
love is in the air in this enchanting photo shoot for a lesbian wedding
love is in the air in this enchanting photo shoot for a lesbian wedding (waterandgems)
the gorgeous lesbian bride steals the show with her love and charm
the gorgeous lesbian bride steals the show with her love and charm
two lesbian brides with bouquets and gorgeous hair
two lesbian brides with bouquets and gorgeous hair (masonphotography)
boho LGBT rustic wedding ideas
boho LGBT rustic wedding ideas (Ivory Rose Photography)
picture perfect lesbian wedding moment with cute dog
picture perfect lesbian wedding moment with cute dog (Jess Fairchild)
LGBTQ+ couple with love wins wedding sign
LGBTQ+ couple with love wins wedding sign (Kelsey Diane Photography)
Mr. and Mrs. LGBT beach wedding photo session
Mr. and Mrs. LGBT beach wedding photo session (melbutkcarr)
happy lesbian brides in rainbow wedding sneakers
happy lesbian brides in rainbow wedding sneakers (sammblake)
boho beach inspired LGBT wedding
boho beach inspired LGBT wedding (Lin & Jirsa)

 Wedding Party

Unlike traditional weddings, you can have anyone you want in your wedding party, not just bridesmaids and groomsmen. It's common for lesbian couples to invite guests of both genders to their wedding. Choose a uniform look for the wedding party if that's what you're going for, or let people dress casually but coordinate with small details like matching shoes, bow ties, or hair accessories. Weddings at home, with only close friends and family members, can be especially appropriate if the couple prefers a minimalistic theme. It's quite acceptable to have simply the two of you as your wedding party.

lesbian wedding couple surrounded by their cherished wedding party
lesbian wedding couple surrounded by their cherished wedding party (Jessica Hopwood Photography)
these gorgeous lesbian brides and their blush dressed wedding party shine in the rustic charm
these gorgeous lesbian brides and their blush dressed wedding party shine in the rustic charm (Madison Abbey Photography)
two lesbian brides with bridesmaids in pastel dresses
two lesbian brides with bridesmaids in pastel dresses (Erin Browne Photography)
brides with red gown bridesmaid for lesbian autumnal wedding
brides with red gown bridesmaid for lesbian autumnal wedding (Photos From Sophie)
navy bridesmaid dresses for lesbian wedding ideas
navy bridesmaid dresses for lesbian wedding ideas (Emily & Steve Photography)
gorgeous lesbian brides with bright bouquet and fuchsia bridesmaid dresses
gorgeous lesbian brides with bright bouquet and fuchsia bridesmaid dresses (mlove.photo)

Lesbian Wedding Décor

When it comes to wedding planning, there's nothing quite as refreshing as adorning a same-sex lesbian wedding with flowers. Their rainbow-colored beauty can effortlessly transform even the simplest overall wedding decorations into breathtaking masterpieces. Opt for the LGBTQ flag colors as your theme, and you'll be sure to hit the mark. Make your wedding day truly magical by carefully selecting flowers, runners, and bouquets that reflect these vibrant colors, creating an unforgettable celebration of love.

tropical rainbow backdrop for lesbian summer wedding
tropical rainbow backdrop for lesbian summer wedding (hannah.costello)
colorful rainbow themed lesbian wedding centerpiece decorations with pom poms
colorful rainbow themed lesbian wedding centerpiece decorations with pom poms (John Wellings Wedding Photography)
lesbian rainbow aisle wedding decoration ideas
lesbian rainbow aisle wedding decoration ideas (Chapel of the Flowers)
a lesbian rainbow themed countryside wedding décor
a lesbian rainbow themed countryside wedding décor (The Life Narrator Wedding Photography)
lesbian vivid color wedding table decoration
lesbian vivid color wedding table decoration (Planet Events)
colorful lesbian aisle outdoor wedding decorations
colorful lesbian aisle outdoor wedding decorations (sutography)
beautiful and colorful table setting ideas for same sex wedding
beautiful and colorful table setting ideas for same sex wedding (carley.storm.photo.video)
wedding ceremony lesbian wedding boho theme floral backdrop
wedding ceremony lesbian wedding boho theme floral backdrop (Laura Memory Photography)
rainbow themed table setting for lesbian wedding
rainbow themed table setting for lesbian wedding (Mad for you creative Photography)

Rainbow Wedding Cake

Why not make a cake for your special day that shows off all the colors instead of trying to hide them? Use bright colors for everything, from the outside layer and cover to the smallest details. These beautiful rainbow wedding cakes are a great place to start if you need ideas for how to add color to your cake in a way that goes with your theme. Include a special touch by adding a personalized cake topper.

rainbow inspired four tiered same sex wedding cake
rainbow inspired four tiered same sex wedding cake (Rodeo and co. Photography)
LGBT rainbow wedding cake with topper
LGBT rainbow wedding cake with topper (rockiiescakes)
lesbian wedding cake topper
lesbian wedding cake topper (Silver Pasta Crafts)
delicious two tiered rainbow wedding cake with floral décor
delicious two tiered rainbow wedding cake with floral décor (Janea Greene Creative Photography)
stunning two tiered lesbian rustic barn wedding cake
stunning two tiered lesbian rustic barn wedding cake (Cantley House)
rainbow cookie crumb lesbian wedding cake
rainbow cookie crumb lesbian wedding cake (Confections of a Rockstar)
LGBT three tiered rainbow outdoor wedding cake
LGBT three tiered rainbow outdoor wedding cake (bjorncakes)
Mrs. and Mrs. sugar three tiered rainbow same sex wedding cake
Mrs. and Mrs. sugar three tiered rainbow same sex wedding cake (Sophisticakes By Mary)
colorful four tiered lesbian autumn wedding cake
colorful four tiered lesbian autumn wedding cake (Ruthie Cakes)
unicorn rainbow theme cake for lesbian wedding
unicorn rainbow theme cake for lesbian wedding (unicornfartssthlm_cakedesign)
simple LGBT small wedding cake
simple LGBT small wedding cake (jemrichards)
colorful three tiered wedding cake ideas
colorful three tiered wedding cake ideas (Flo Berry Photography)
bottom tier chocolate biscuit with lemon sponge lesbian rainbow wedding cake
bottom tier chocolate biscuit with lemon sponge lesbian rainbow wedding cake (Ruairi ‘s Kitchen)

Common FAQs

what is a lesbian wedding?

Two women who are in a committed and loving relationship can get married in a ceremony known as a “lesbian wedding.” This is a momentous time where they can tell everyone how much they love and commit to each other in front of their friends and family.

Which finger is the wedding ring for lesbian couples?

The right ring finger has long been the choice of finger for engagement and wedding bands among gay and lesbian couples. This was a conventional manner for them to demonstrate their love that nonetheless highlighted the special nature of their relationship.

How does a lesbian wedding work?

Either the single-aisle tradition or the two-aisle option, in which both partners walk down the aisle at once to begin the ceremony, is appropriate for an LGBTQ couple's wedding. The bouquet and garter throw are optional, but the first dance and cutting of the cake are musts.

Conclusion

A wedding is a joyous and festive event for everyone involved. This achievement is all the more significant given that LGBT couples in the United States have only been able to legally marry for a relatively short period of time (less than a decade). Prepare to make your wedding ceremony one for the books! Create a one-of-a-kind, magical celebration with the help of our lesbian wedding ideas. Whether you're the happy couple, a member of the wedding party, a guest, or just someone looking for some classy same sex wedding gift ideas, we've got you covered.

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Seven years ago, I took a leap of faith and merged my organisational skills and love for all things wedding by starting this blog. Since then, it's been a whirlwind of sharing my insights, covering the latest trends, and offering practical how-tos, all aimed at simplifying your wedding experience.

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